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Ángela S Garza's avatar

Well... my wife and I met in late 30s and our window was very short. Had our baby girl at 39 (wife's age) and the window was shorter after that. It was decided then just 1. Having a sibling was great for me so I can't say as I still bother her all the TIME! Pick on her, make jokes (bad) about her (to HER!). If I couldn't bother my sister, I don't know what I would do with myself... now I do it to my wife! Then again... I had 3 boy cousins all within 3 years or age of me so they were like my brothers and I was with one of them all the time on weekends or holidays. Would I have been fine with just those 3 boy cousins and without my sis. Probably but I can also tell you had it not been for my sister going to study abroad in Mexico City while in college and I began to listen more to Spanish pop/rock like Mana, Shakira (young dark black hair Shakira) and continued to expand from there to Salsa music... not sure I would have been looking for my future wife... so to sum it up... I have to give some credit to my sis for unconsciously helping ME find my future.... WIFE. Happy I have a sibling sis.

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Ángela S Garza's avatar

This is Adrian Garza not Angela (my lovely wife).

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Alan Wesson's avatar

Lol, I figured!

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Alan Wesson's avatar

Sibling sis for the win! I will probably be sharing more about the evolution of the relationship with my older sister in a coming letter. She also deserves some credit ❤️ Crazy enough, it sounds to me as if it had not been for your sister, I probably would never have met you either!

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